What is well-being?

by | Mar 13, 2021 | Blog, Well-Being | 0 comments

You often hear the phrase well-being, but what actually is it? How do you know when you are ‘well’ enough? How can you measure it? And does it much matter anyway (because we’re all so busy these days)?

The true definition, “not having a diagnosed disease”, is a little vague and simple nowadays.  The business of well-being is multi-faceted. It’s not just what you eat or how you move that has you ‘being well’. It’s a more complicated picture of also having good mental health, a high level of satisfaction with your life, a sense of meaning or purpose, and the ability to manage your stress levels.

And I’m sorry to tell you that you cannot get this overall sense of wellness by nailing a couple of these elements and hoping your achievements in one area can pick up the slack in other areas where you might be lacking. While it is not necessary to feel that every single one of the elements below is great, you cannot enjoy an overall sense of well-being without having some kind of balance in all of these key elements:

  • Physical – this includes what you eat and how active you are
  • Emotional – your ability to cope with everyday life as well as how you think and feel about yourself
  • Social – the extent to which you feel you belong and social inclusion. Rolled into this are your relationships with others, and your values, beliefs and traditions  
  • Spiritual – This is the ability to experience and integrate meaning and purpose in life. Achieved through being connected to our inner self, to nature or even a higher power
  • Intellectual – It is important to gain and maintain intellectual wellness as it helps us to expand our knowledge and skills in order to live an enjoyable and successful life
  • Economic – your ability to meet your basic needs and feel a sense of security

How can you measure how well you are doing?

The experience of ‘well-being’ is very subjective. It is not for others to tell you how well (or otherwise) you are doing at your own wellness. When I’m working with my clients, one of the tools I use most often is something called the Wheel of Life, which offers a 360-degree view of your current life situation. Each segment in the wheel represents a different area of your life that is important for overall health and wellbeing. Of course, my wheel is skewed towards nutrition and lifestyle, but the effect is pretty much the same. You would score yourself based on how you feel about different areas of your life: health, weight, fitness, energy levels, personal achievements, work/career, sense of purpose, happiness, fun, family life, social life and friendships, and (last but not least) ‘me time’.

Try the Wheel of Life for yourself.

The great thing about the Wheel of Life is that it allows you to take an honest look at what’s working in your life right now and where else you would like to see improvements, then find ways to link your health goals, so there is a positive impact in other ways too, helping to increase your motivation and commitment.

Consider each area of your life now and rate on a scale of 1-10 how satisfied you feel in the correct area in your wheel. 10 is high, and 1 is low. So if the level is 4, put a cross on the 4th circle from the centre.

It’s completely normal for people to discover they are satisfied with some areas of their lives and very unsatisfied with others. Remember that this is really a helicopter view, allowing you the luxury of evaluating the whole of your life and not piecemeal. It’s also common for some of my clients to get a bit upset if they see they score low in more areas than they’d like. If you try the Wheel of Life Exercise and don’t like what you see, don’t panic. When clients are working with me, they focus on taking actions to improve the specific areas of their life which need a boost – you should too.

Why not try the exercise and see how you get on?

There are a handful of things I always try to be mindful of as I go about my day-to-day life:

  • I look for ways to connect; to talk and listen to others, and to live in the moment
  • I consider how I can build more activity naturally into my day by walking when there is a realistic option and moving my body in a way that feels good rather than a chore or a punishment
  • I observe and take notice of the simple things that bring joy. Focussing on things I am grateful for makes a big difference to how I experience my life
  • I am always on the look-out for ways to embrace new experiences, to grow and learn
  • I try to be generous with my time, kind words and my presence

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